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The Royal Neighbor, Vol. 2, No. 11, November 1901
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VOLUME II.
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Qualifications
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An address read by Supreme Oracle E. D. Watt,
before the meeting of Illinois deputies at Peoria,
Ill., October 4.
Deputies: We have met today for
mutual benefit and for a discussion of
the best methods to advance our field
work, and for an interchange of views
on the subject that is of special inter-
est to our deputies and to your Su-
preme Officers. I believe, and know,
that these meetings can be made
profitable if each one comes here
with a view of learning something
that will assist her in her work
in the future. There is sometimes
a tendency among our deputies to
relax their efforts and to let a few
failures or discouragements distract
their interest, and hence the work
suffers. We all fully understand
that the deputy’s avocation is not al-
ways attended with ease; neither can
you secure members without having to
put forth a great personal exertion to
secure them; but we also know that if
persons succeed in any line of busi-
ness they must expect to meet difficul-
ties, and there must be a strong will
which is able to overcome these diffi-
culties; and you must all learn to
make good the motto, “If at first you
don’t succeed, try, try again,” and in
many instances trial after trial has to
be made before success crowns your
efforts.
Deputies in our society have such a
good cause to labor for they need have
no hesitancy in approaching a person
time and again; as they can assuredly
feel that in all their work they are.
doing something for the good of man-
kind. And it is work that none need
be ashamed of.
A word about those who should ap-
ply for deputy work. None should ap-
ply whose family cares are such they
cannot be left, and who is so situated
that she cannot go from home at any
time and remain away from home for
a length of time if work requires her
to do so. Home is a mother’s king-
dom, and a woman should consider
well if this kingdom can spare her gov-
erning hand before she applies for
work as a deputy. No woman should
apply for deputy work with the idea
that it is a great honor to be in pos-
session of a commission as a Deputy
Supreme Oracle. True, it is an honor,
but the responsibility must be weighed
with the honor. I believe many wo-
men apply for work as a deputy who
do not have the least conception that
there is work connected with the posi-
tion, and are somewhat surprised and
almost indignant when questioned as
to their abilities along this line, ap-
parently having gotten the idea that
all a deputy had to do was to sit in an
easy chair and direct the movements
of an army of solicitors who would
consider themselves so honored by do-
ing this work that they would do it all
for glory and fame, and she would have |
EDITORIAL OFFICE, |
ROCK ISLAND, ILL.
Me
True, Noble Womanhood and Ability
and an Inclination for Hard Work ¢
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of a Deputy
the proud distinction of being known
as a Deputy Supreme Oracle; but after
learning that she would be expected
to do personal work, she would con-
clude to try for something else with
less work, more honor, and better pay.
NOVEMBER, 1901.
she must gain the respect of the peo-
ple and treat all with whom she comes
in contact in a thoroughly business
manner; must endeavor to gain their
confidence, both in her integrity and
high standard of character.
Deputies, you should endeavor to
make friends so that you will be wel-
comed again should you have oceasion
to visit there at some future time.
Make it your aim to make friends and
keep them, too. When commissioned,
begin at once to canvass your district.
Depend upon yourself. It is your work,
and if you wish it properly done, do it
yourself; do not depend on others.
You, no doubt, will be at some expense
and labor, but you will succeed if you
IRISH MELODY—By E. HEBERT.
We will now look at some of the
qualifications for deputy work. First,
A deputy should be a good, true, noble
woman, with an abundance of the ar-
ticle known as good, common sense,
and possessing a disposition of unself-
ishness; one who can forget self when
necessary. A woman who can be gen-
tle, yet firm, and with strong enough
character to conduct herself as a wo-
man in all places and upon all oceca-
sions; and she should familiarize her-
self thoroughly with the by-laws of
our society and be able to give
straightforwafd information about the
society in such manner as to prove to
those whom she solicits to become
members that she knows and fully un-
derstands the principles of the society
which she represents. She should on
all occasions be loyal to the society
which she represents, and to its officers,
for in union there is strength, and in
order to become a successful deputy,
persevere, and whatever is worth do-
ing at all is worth doing well. Take
Do your utmost
to make the best record of any one in
the field. Be very painstaking in your
selections of members, both morally
and physically. Always secure the bet-
ter class of people in a community.
Endeavor to harmonize all differences,
if any exist, and in your example
teach the true principles of fraternity.
Do not tolerate or encourage in any
way adverse criticism of the manage-
ment of the society you represent, nor
of your sister deputies. Many depu-
ties have brought just criticism upon
themselves by their unjust critiesm of
the work of some other deputy. None
are perfect, and if some new or inex-
perienced worker has erred in some
way, let the mantle of charity fall
upon her mistakes. Be patient with
new beginners. Many women coming
into our ranks were never inside a
pride in your work.
PUBLICATION OFFICE,
LINCOLN, NEB.
NUMBER 11.
lodge room and all is new to them and
they may seem to you very dull and
stupid, but these are the persons who
need your best efforts, and they will
look to you for thorough and com-
plete instructions. Do not disappoint
them. If you do, you are not a suc-
cessful worker and are not doing what
you could for the work and for your
own credit.
Deputies here present, have you all
done all that you might have done in
your work? Do you believe that you
have accomplished as much since the
meeting of our last Supreme Camp as
you might have done? Have you spent
as much time in your deputy work as
you have at other things? Please
answer these questions to your own
conscience, and if there.is any good
reason why you can not give the work
for which you have been ee
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and you have signed a contract t
perform, your best energies, time, and
efforts, I beg of you to resign and let
some other woman have an opportun-
ity to do the work that must be done.
The perpetuity of our noble society
depends upon your work. Will you do
the best to discharge the duties of
your office and to make a success of
your work?
Since May 1, 1901, the smallest num-
ber of reports of organization of
camps had been received, ever re-
ported since the incorporation of the
society; the work in the last five
months not being as good by one-half
as had been in one month formerly. I
am sorry to have to report this to you;
but I believe that we should know and
consider these facts, for we should
have better work done, and we must
depend on our legally commissioned
deputies to do it. Can we not have
better reports from the grand old
state of Illinois which has always so
proudly led all others in this work?
Deputies, what say you?
we
Courage
A timid man, a discouraged worker, a
sad-hearted struggler can never do the
best work of which he is capable. The
timid man is afraid to let out his forces.
The discouraged man thinks there is no
use in exercising his forces. The sad-
hearted man has weakened his forces so
that they cannot respond to a call. It
is not merely cheerfulness in our work.
that we need; it is downright faith,
honest, whole-souled daring. Try to do
your best with a question whether it
pays or whether there is any hope of
success, or whether life is not a great
cloudy experience, and you will fail.
The best in us comes up through confi-
dence, and it is kissed into power by
smiles of hope, and it is led on by
shouts of victory, and crowned by
beautiful patience. ‘The best” is born
of content, and is colored by blood.
And it is measured in God’s glorious
presence, not by banners, or human
plaudits, or sounding trumpets, but by
the amount of virtue which has en-
tered into it.—Reserve.
we Me
Look to the past, act in the present,
aspire for the future. It matters not
if by a glance backward we see the
tents of bright hopes are torn and
tattered or they are fluttering banners
of success in life’s breezes.