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The Royal Neighbor, Vol. 2, No. 10, October 1901
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Where Is My Boy?
There are heart songs so intensely
and universally human and true that
they will always have their occasion
and their sympathetic ministry. One
of these is the well-known hymn,
“Where is My Wandering Boy To-
night?” The following is condensed
from a chapter of autobiography in the
Union Gospel News:
A young civil engineer of western
Kentucky,who assisted his father in his
business of railroad prospecting and
surveying, had contracted intemperate
habits. His work from place to place
threw him into the society of loose
men, much more than his father
seemed to be aware of, and being a
generous, convivial fellow, he paid for
his popularity by copying their indulg-
ences.
His dangerous appetite and his oc-
easional fits of dissipation were so
shrewdly concealed that his parents
were kept in ignorance of them for
two years—until he was twenty years
old. They were worthy people and
constant church-goers, the father be-
ing choir-leader and the mother a fine
soprano singer.
Once, while the young man was em-
ployed on a section of road forty miles
from home, it became necessary to
“lie over” from Thursday noon till
Monday. His father would be detained
till Saturday, reaching home in time
for the choir rehearsal, but the son
returned at once, and went to a liquor
saloon to commence a three days’
“spree.”
The saloon-keeper understood his
case too well, and kept him hidden in
his own apartments. When his father
returned, expecting to find the boy at
home, a surprise awaited him. Trouble |
began when the question, ‘Where’s
Harry?” informed the startled mother
that he was missing.
For the Sunday evening service she
was to sing a solo, and by special re-
quest—because she sang it so well-—-
her selection was to be the hymn,
“Where is My Wandering Boy?”
It seemed to her impossible to per-
form her promise under the circum-
stances; and when, on Sunday morn-
ing, a policeman found Harry, the cer-
tainty was no more comforting than
the suspense had been; but she was
advised that he would be “all right to-
morrow morning,” and that she had
better not see him until “sobered up.”
She controlled her grief as well as
she could, took her part that day in
the choir as usual, and made no
change for the evening.
Toward night Harry began to come
to himself. His father had hired a
man to stay with him and see to his
recovery, and when he learned that
his mother had been told of his plight,
the information cut him to the heart
and helped to sober him.
When the bells rang, he announced
his determination to go to church. He
knew nothing of the evening program.
He was still in his working clothes,
but no reasoning could dissuade him,
and his attendant, after making him
as presentable as possible, went with
him to the service.
Entering early by a side door, they
found seats in a secluded corner, but
not far from the pulpit and the organ.
The house filled, and after the usual
EDITORIAL OFFICE,
ROCK ISLAND, ILL.
succession of prayer, anthem and ser-
mon, the time for the solo came. It
was probably the first time in that
church that a mother had ever sung
out of her own soul’s distress:
“Oh, where is my wand’ring boy tonight,
The child of my love and care?’
What faith sustained her, when
every word must have been a cruel
stab? The great audience caught the
feeling of the song, but there was one
heart as near to breaking as her own.
That he was present she had no knowl-
OCTOBER, 1901.
A Word to Wives on Life Insur-
ance.
The last person in the world to stand
in the way of the husband and father
who wishes to assure his life should be
the wife. Yet it is a remarkable fact
that sometimes a man who fully real-
izes the importance and value of life
assurance is prevented from securing
a policy by the unreasonable but very
determined opposition of the wife. The
good lady chooses to hug the foolish
idea that the insurance policy is some-
uk DARE,
edge. She had sung the last stanza,
“Go for my wandering boy to-night,
Go search for him where you will,
But bring him to me with all his blight,
And tell him I love him still.
Oh, where is my wandering boy?”
when a young man in a wool shirt and
corduroy trousers and jacket made his
way to the choir stairs with out-
stretched arms, and sobbing like a
child, exclaimed:
“Here I am, mother!”
The weeping mother hastened down
the steps and folded him in her arms.
The astonished organist, quick to take
in the meaning of the scene, pulled out
all his stops and played “Old Hun-
dred”’—‘‘Praise God, from whom all
blessings flow.” The congregation,
with hundreds of voices, joined in the
great doxology, while the father, the
pastor and the friends of the returned
prodigal stood by him with moist eyes
and welcoming hand.
The wayward boy ended his wander-
ings then and there. That moment
was a consecration, and the beginning
of a life of sobriety and Christian use-
fulness.
death
and she would never touch blood mon-
thing approaching a warrant,
ey—never! Strange as it may seem
we have never known the case of a
wife who had set her face against her
husband’s life assurance failing to
promptly collect the amount of the
policy when he was gone. Now any
sensible woman who will calmly reflect
for a moment upon the matter will
see that the sum assured on her hus-
band’s life is as properly purchased as
is his house or shares or any other
property. As a matter of fact if he
were to buy a house on the condition
that he should die before all the pur-
chase money was paid the deeds would
be handed over to his wife free of all
further cost, there is no woman who
would not commend his foresight and
good sense. Now, instead of a house,
which might prove an encumbrance,
he arranges for acertain sum of money
to be paid to his family at his death.
Is he less wise? Is he not infinitely
more sensible? Remember, it isn’t
charity, or something to which his fam-
ily have not a perfect right. On the
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NUMBER 10.
contrary he bought it, by the payment
of premiums while he lived. Another
fact which wives should recollect is
this, that the man who gets a policy
in a first-class office must be a selected
life, and therefore, likely to live to a
good old age. This is the reason that
assured lives as a class are much longer
lived than the population generally. If
a wife allows herself to entertain a
foolish prejudice against life assur-
ance for her own benefit, she should
at least consider the welfare of her
children. Their father is morally
bound to leave them the means of sub-
sisting when he is taken away. If he
is not a rich man he cannot leave them
land and houses, bank shares or other
forms of wealth, but he can purchase
for them a life policy, the full amount
of which will be available in cash at
his death. This is his privilege and it
is also his duty. Will you, O wife, take
upon yourself the serious consequence
of thwarting your husband in the per-
formance of his manifest duty to you
and the children? Consider the matter
calmly yourself, ask the advice of any
enlightened person who is competent
to advise you, and the result, if you
will be persuaded, will be that not only
will you cease to oppose your husband’s
life assurance, but you will forthwith
assist him in every possible way to
secure a policy without delay.—Mutual
Life Chronicle, Eng.
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The Making of Character.
Do not let us suppose that character
requires great circumstances for the
making. Character can be made in
poor circumstances. There are huge
manufactories in this country, with
magnificent machinery, with chimneys
belching forth clouds of black smoke
to pollute the air, where they turn out
carpets of the most wonderful aspects,
which would almost make you ill to
look at, and which perish quickly in
the using.
Far away in the east, in some poor
little hut, an eastern ;workman is work-
ing with threads of many colors beside
him; he has been toiling for many
years, and when he has finished he will
have turned out a single square of such
beautiful coloring and such perfect
workmanship that when it comes to
this country it will be bought at a
great price, and the owner’s great-
grandchildren will see it fresh and
beautiful. So much for the great man-
ufactory and the whirling wheels and
the noise and the smoke; so much for
the quietness and obscurity of a single
workman.—Rev. John Watson, D. D.
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Straw Braid Trimmings.
The evolution of straw from the stiff,
unyielding braids to the soft, pliable,
thin, satin varieties has wrought a
pretty change in millinery, and beside
this the old-fashioned lace-straws are
revived again and twisted like silk into
the softest, lightest toques. Some of
the prettiest straws, aside from the
yellow tints, are woven in two shades
of pale fawn color, made up and trim-
med with loops and bows of the new
glace ribbon in the darker shade and
a fold of silk or velvet in some bright
color tucked under the brim with a
small bunch of flowers of the same
tint at the back.